10 Favorite Causes of 2011

Looking back over the year past we were lucky enough to meet and work with some fascinating people with big hearts and amazing goals to help others. It was an honor to be able to help in any way possible and we look forward to working with these great organizations again in the coming years!

  1.  Surrey Christmas Bureau, this organization is close to my heart. It hurts me to think of all of the children in our own backyard who may not have a Christmas at all without the help of the Christmas Bureau. I was lucky enough to go and tour the facility with my son (who has a whole lot to be grateful for)that was being used as their headquarters this past Christmas and learn about the behind the scenes operations and all of the hard work that the volunteers put in to make Christmas special for so many families. While they accomplish  lot each year it is never enough to meet the demand. If you can help out in 2012 please do, they are happy to accept all donations and even have a used goods store on site where they are always looking for shoes, womens/mens clothing and other items in good used condition.
  2. Samaritans Purse: Operation Christmas Child. I was introduced to this fantastic program through my sons school this past Christmas and we loved every minute of our involvement! This was a great family project we all worked on together filling shoe boxes to send over to Africa. The whole school took part in the project and provided shoebox gifts to kids who have never known Christmas.
  3. Canadian Cancer Society.What can I say about the Canadian Cancer Society? Almost everyone I know has been touched by cancer in some way and that is likely the case for you as well. There has been a lot of loss due to cancer in my family and I’ve witnessed first hand the devastating effects Cancer can have on a person even after they’ve undergone treatments. It’s the dedicated and caring staff and volunteers at the Cancer Agency that kept us going through the tough times and the Canadian Cancer Society needs our support to continue to search for a cure and provide the programs to help those who need support.
  4. Autism BC is another cause that I believe in very strongly. There are too many children being diagnosed with Autism these days and we need to show our support for the programs that are there to assist the kids and their families. Autism is the beneficiary of our Spring Fundraiser each year and we hope to continue to grow the support we have gotten thus far! Thank you for your support and if you are interested in being involved in 2012 contact us!
  5. Langley Child Development Centre serves families with children who have special needs in Langley City and Township.Langley Child Development Centre is a not-for-profit organization formed by parents and professionals in June 1975. The Society has grown from its original one room preschool serving 15 children to include over 800 children and youth, aged from birth to 19 years. They offer several programs and host annual events to benefit the children they help. Be sure to visit the Annual Langley Toy & Product Fair to show your support in 2012!
  6. Tuna 4 Training was a great campaign started by Catherine Dawn, owner of FloMotion Fitness and Yoga Studio, after she heard the news that seniors in her very own White Rock neighborhood were starving or eating cat food because they couldn’t afford to buy groceries. Read about more about Tuna 4 Training here!
  7. Canuck Place Children’s Hospice has long been a favorite organization to support. Before the birth of children and the having my world taken over by career and family commitments  I used to spend my Sunday afternoons volunteering at the Hospice. Something I plan to resume again in the near future! Canuck Place has a number of events and programs that require volunteers throughout the year, if you have some time click here to volunteer! Canuck Place will be the beneficiary of the upcoming Once Upon a Belly Show as well, go check it out and support a great cause!
  8. Matthew’s House is an organization that will provide respite for children with life-limiting disabilities. It is the first of its kind in Abbotsford as, within a campus of care, it offers children a safe, welcoming place where they can stay, while allowing their parents time to rest. It will offer long and short term respite based on the needs of individuals and their families.
  9. Ronald McDonald House BC is a safe, secure home-away-from-home where out-of-town families with seriously ill children can stay while their children receive medical treatment in Vancouver at BC Children’s Hospital.For over 25 years, Ronald McDonald House BC (RMH BC) has been providing accommodation for seriously ill children and their families.
  10. From one Family to Another is a local organization formed to help out families in the Lower Mainland who are in need. Whether they have lost their home to fire, lost their belongings to robbery or are just going through a tough time they are there to help. They have various drop off locations around the Lower Mainland and are always in need of donations to assist families in need.Find our more about them on Facebook.

There are so many worthy organizations and causes we would love to help them all!

If you want to shine a spotlight on an organization or individual in your community who is helping others please let us know! We would love to feature them in our monthly “GIVING BACK” post! Use the Contact us tab at the top of the page or click here.

January 4th, 2012

Remembering our Friends 2011

2011 was a year of goodbyes for some of our favorite local businesses. Here is a look back on friends who closed their doors.

Baby Cheeks

You Pillows

Toots N Tots, but have no fear! Maggie is still around with her gorgeous designs at Maxwell Designs!

Bouncing Babies (bought and operating in the USA now) check out Catherine and crews new venture Bundles and Buzz!

Eden Cloth Diapering

Off to Bed

Kidzown Boutiques

Movies for Mommies Cloverdale, Movies for Mommies did however open in Burnaby and they are still going strong in Vancouver and a bunch of other cities across Canada. Visit Movies for Mommies to see where and when the next show is!

 

 

January 3rd, 2012

Top 10 Events of 2011!

2011 was filled with great events supporting or promoting great causes around the Lower Mainland. We are proud to continue to be a sponsor of Once Upon a Belly, Sweet Pea Pageants and Kidz Concerts. We are also looking forward to our Annual Spring Fling Fundraiser to benefit Autism BC, the Parental Guidance Conference and the FREE Family FanFest presented by Sportball all coming up in 2012!

  1. Spring Fling Fundraiser on Saturday April 30th to benefit Autism BC and underprivileged kids in the Lower Mainland.
  2. Sweet Pea Pageants Mardis Gras Pageant
  3. Kidz Concert presented by the Chor Leoni Men’s Choir
  4. Once Upon A Belly
  5. Connect Youth Conference 2011
  6. Will Stroet’s Concert to Conquer Cancer
  7. Movies for Mommies GRAND OPENING in Burnaby
  8. Suburban Rush Kids Race
  9. Fundraiser for Japan
  10. SOS Children’s Village Run

Honorary mention to Toonies for Kids Society, their event was cancelled due to lack of ticket sales but it would have been fabulous and I am proud to have been a part of the organization.They are standing up for a great cause that we should all be concerned about.

 

If you have an event happening or know of one that you think we should be involved in please feel free to drop us a line! We are always open to helping in the community! Check out tomorrows Favorite 10 Causes of 2011!

January 2nd, 2012

Our Top 10 Post’s of 2011

It is hard to believe another year has come and gone. It seems that time is moving at warp speeds these days!

Thank you to all of our readers, supporters, contributors and advertisers who made this an outstanding year.

We would not be here without all of your support. We are looking forward to another successful year in 2012 with a lot of new contributors being added to our bunch of talent! We have some exciting events planned, great prizes and super fun offers from our partners!

Reflecting on the year gone by here are my top ten blog posts of 2011:

  1. Last Years TOP 10 Discoveries of 2010 was our most read post ever! A great way to kick off the year and it only got better from there!
  2. How does your Childcare Rate this was just a post announcing a searchable database that was created by the Vancouver Sun but it got A LOT of feedback!
  3. REVIEW: HOP I don’t usually count Reviews as “posts” but HOP was my favorite movie of the year and deserves a mention!
  4. How’s Your Vertebral Subluxation? A great feature on In Touch Chiropractic!
  5. Where have all the Water Slides gone? This post was one I wrote with mixed feelings…a sense of sadness because all of my favorite Sliding destinations where quickly becoming a thing of the past and fun because I had the chance to connect with some of the wonderful park operators and get their in-site!
  6. Today It Stuck was the inaugural post by Sam, one of our contributors and our Advertising Consultant. Sam did an awesome job and this first post became one of the most talked about and well received of the year! Find her on Twitter @samorjj
  7. Annual Passes You Must Have, this was one of my favorites, and a favorite of our readers!
  8. Halloween Party Planning Tips this was a guest post I wrote for Nugglemama.ca and led me to write several more guest posts for various websites over the rest of the year! It’s fun writing for other people!
  9. Should you Hire a Birth Doula written by Sarah Joseph of Prenatal to Parenting. Sarah and her partner Rhiannon offer a wide variety of services that can meet the needs of parents anywhere along the continuum from prenatal to parenting.
  10. Reducing the Stress of Co-Parenting Over the Holidays written by Tania Bryan one of our newest contributors, and a child and family therapist at Help for Families Canada-Counseling and Consulting

Check out tomorrows recap of Top 10 events of 2011!

 

January 1st, 2012

Happy New Year!

We would like to wish everyone a safe and happy new year!

Join us starting January 1st for our week of reflections as we look back on 2011!

December 31st, 2011

Another Christmas past…

Christmas has come and gone in a blur of school concerts, cocktail parties and holiday playdates. When the tree went up on November 12th (yes, really!) it seemed like Christmas was so far off and there was plenty of time to catch up with friends and family, attend all of the holiday events and get the wrapping done in time to relax on Christmas eve. The Christmas whirlwind took over and everyday became a blur of activity. Now in the aftermath of Christmas we are sorting through all of the loot and “must have” toys and holiday items and making a pile of the ones that turned out to be duds! As we open the toys and try them out our pile of rejects is growing.

 

The Creepy Crawlers – Mega Bug Maker Value Pack is the first must have, seemed super cool in theory item to be returned. The toy is a piece of junk! Children do not have the attention span to wait around for a toy to “warm up” for 15 minutes at the best of times but to have to wait for the warm up phase to complete and then wait again for the cool down phase which is another 5-10 minutes and even then the bug has not formed correctly. It’s a very time consuming, messy (goop oozes out the sides of the molds) and frustrating apparatus! This toy definitely a fail this Christmas.

The Bakugan Battle Arena is another waste of money! I’m glad it wasn’t purchased at the full price because it falls apart the second you touch it or move it and the elastic bands that are supposed to bounce the Bakugans back into the arena fly off as soon as they are touched.

 

BEYBLADE Metal Masters -Beyblaster , all I can say about this launcher is that is is a waste of money and doesn’t work as it is supposed to. It’s difficult to operate for an adult let a lone a child. We did however get another launcher;  Beyblade Metal Masters Battle Gear launcher that is by far superior so if you are in the market for a GOOD Beyblades launcher I suggest the latter!

 

Stay tuned for more of our HITS and MISSES this Christmas!

 

 

 

December 27th, 2011

Reducing the Stress of Co-Parenting over the Holidays

Even though you may terminate the intimate relationship with your partner, if you have children together you must continue to relate for your lifetime as co-parents. This can be quite a difficult role to transition into, and the challenges often reveal themselves during the holidays. Whether you are recently separated, or are still working out the dynamics of co-parenting, here are a few tips to consider that may help to make this holiday season more pleasant and manageable for you, your children, and your co-parent.

Are You Recently Separated?– If this is your first Christmas since the separation here are a few tips especially for you.

  1. Empathise with children. The first holidays after a separation are always difficult for everyone. Anticipate that your child/ren may have some sadness or anger and allow them the space to express these. It will help you to hear their feelings if you reject the temptation to interpret their expression as blame or a reason for you to feel guilty about the separation.  Seek professional help for your child if you honestly find yourself struggling in your capacity to support them.
  2. Plan a FUN-time for yourself. Do this especially for any period of the holidays when you may not be with your child. Invite over friends, visit your own family, or plan a trip, do something different that will engage you socially and emotionally and protect you from any feelings of sadness than can overwhelm you for your first holiday without a spouse and the children.
  3. Be Flexible & Open to New Different Traditions. Although some consistency is good, avoid getting stuck in wanting to do the holidays the way you always did. Inflexibility blocks negotiations with your co-parent and raises the tension in the family. Additionally, frustration and disappointment is inevitable when the efforts to keep things “as they were” fail, because … things have changed. Your children are struggling to accept these changes so your denial of this will only confuse them. One common compromise divorce parents use is to celebrate the holidays on different non-traditional days. Relax; there is no Parenting Santa who will judge you as ‘naughty’ if you celebrate Christmas on New Years.

Developing a Co-Parenting Holiday Schedule

Effective scheduling is a key task in managing the multiple demands of the holiday season.

  1. Plan the holiday schedule in advance with your parenting partner and put the agreement in writing (email or electronic calendar).
  2. Ask your children how they would like to spend their holidays. This does not mean that you arrange everything to please them; the final decision is between you both as parents, but involve them in the decision-making.
  3. Talk with the children about the holiday schedule. Let them know the details. Children want to know who will take them, where they will go, what they will do with that person, how long they will be with them, and how the transitions will occur.
  4. Be on-time and honour the commitment you made to the other parent. Cutting into the other parent’s time is devaluing your child’s excitement about their time with that parent. If unexpected changes occur please give the courtesy call a.s.a.p.

Common Parenting Schedules:

*Parent A has children Christmas Eve morning to mid-day Christmas Day. Parent B has children Christmas Afternoon to Boxing Day evening (and some alternate each year)

*Parent A has children for Christmas; Parent B has children for New Years.

*Year 1 Parent A has children for Christmas holidays, Year 2 Parent B has children for Christmas holidays. (This is especially relevant if parents are now living a great distance apart).

* Parents A & B have shared and separate times with the children over the holidays. This is the exception but does occur. I do not recommend this if the separation is recent or there is a pattern of conflict between parenting partners.

 

Parenting is a lifetime commitment which you will share with your ex forever. Whatever arrangements you make for the holidays should bear respect for the fact that the other parent will always be your child’s parent.

Happy Holidays!

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Contributor:

Tania Bryan is a child and family therapist at Help for Families Canada-Counseling and Consulting. She has extensive and diverse experience working with children, youth, and families for over 20 years in professional and voluntary sectors. Leading with a Masters of Arts in Counselling Psychology from Simon Fraser University, Tania also brings her qualifications of a Bachelor of Science in Social Work and a Teachers Certificate in Special Education to inform how she supports and advocates for children and families in her private practice as well as in the community.

December 13th, 2011

Lest We Forget

Take a moment today to remember those who fought for us, and teach your children that we must never forget.

Photo from Wikimedia

In Flanders Fields

By John McCrae

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie,
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

in flanders fields poem

November 10th, 2011

Happy Canada Day!

Enjoy the long weekend and check out some of the great events going on all around the Lower Mainland!

 

July 1st, 2011

How’s your Vertebral Subluxation?

As a Vancouver Chiropractor ,Dr. Ahren Roy’s In Touch chiropractic is based on the premise that good health and mobility rely on a normal functioning nervous system and a healthy spine .
In-Touch Chiropractic Vancouver operates under the living principle that the body is born with an innate healing ability. When free from nerve interference, the human body heals from within. Minor misalignment in the spinal column, known as vertebral subluxation, lead to nerve interference reducing the body’s healing capacity.

Our Focus is to correct Vertebral Subluxation through natural Chiropractic Care and to promote healthy lifestyle choices in the areas of nutrition and exercise to achieve optimal levels of health and wellness. Our Mission is to inspire and empower people to live healthy lives. To provide from a principle that goes beyond the treatment of symptoms and disease to allow people to express life, health and healing in abundance. Our Vision is for families in the Vancouver, downtown Vancouver, West Vancouver, East Vancouver, Lower Mainland, Mt. Pleasant, City Centre and All Vancouver to achieve and express exceptional health, altering the consciousness of our community to a health paradigm that honors and supports the body’s innate healing capacity. Our Purpose is to educate and adjust as many families as possible towards optimal health through natural Chiropractic Care . Not all Vancouver chiropractors are the same! Ask questions and expect clear answers. After you tour the In Touch Vancouver Chiropractic website, call Vancouver chiropractor Dr. Ahren Roy. He’d love to meet you and explain his unique approach to chiropractic and lifetime wellness.

Visit In-Touch Chiropractic at the Once Upon a Belly Show this weekend, Saturday May 28th from 11am – 4pm at the Roundhouse Community Centre in Vancouver!

May 23rd, 2011